When we talk about “Manners and Manners”, we refer to a whole range of attitudes, gestures, and habits that, often without us realising, can compromise our image.
These behaviours, besides reflecting negatively on us, can also affect the image of our company, whether it is large or small, public or private.
What to Avoid Protecting Our Image
Let us look at some behaviours we should avoid if we want to convey a positive image, both personally and professionally.
Inappropriate posture: Sitting in a slouched manner or not knowing how to stand properly can make us appear insecure and unprofessional. Imagine seeing someone "lying down" in a chair during a meeting: it does not exactly inspire confidence, does it?
Excessive gestures: Although we Italians are famous for using our hands a lot when we talk, this may not always be well-received, especially by foreign interlocutors. There is also a difference between using gestures to emphasize a point and turning them into a real tic (like constantly touching your hair or face). If you are one of those who cannot help but make these gestures, a bit of self-control, and perhaps some professional help, could make a difference!
Swearing and vulgarity: This type of language not only fails to communicate anything constructive but also risks offending the listener. Most importantly, it reflects poorly on us as individuals. Speaking with respect and using appropriate language is one of the key principles of etiquette, both in personal and professional life.
Why It is Important to Correct These Behaviours
Whether you are interacting with a colleague, a client, or your boss, maintaining proper behaviour will help create a more pleasant and harmonious work environment. On the contrary, bad habits like yelling, using an incorrect tone of voice, or gesticulating wildly can lead to misunderstandings and, over time, damage professional and personal relationships.
In the digital age, a mistake can be costly!
All it takes is one wrong move captured by a camera or phone to leave a lasting impression... even in digital archives.
Think about when a celebrity, politician, or public figure makes an etiquette mistake: it quickly goes viral, and the resulting ridicule can damage their image for a long time.
Conclusion
Being aware of our attitudes and working on any tics or bad habits not only improves how others perceive us but also helps us feel more confident and in control of our image.
Etiquette is not just a set of rigid rules.
What is it instead? It is a collection of behaviours.
How do they help us? To navigate better our relationships with style and elegance!
So, the next time you catch yourself over-gesticulating or sitting awkwardly, pause for a moment and think, how do I want others to see me?
Then act accordingly!
EDDA
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